This is the first time I have used one of these and it is amazing. It's the perfect size to fit and stay inside of you, and you don't have to use the remote to turn it on. The speeds are great and once inside, you barely hear it on when you use a lower setting. I was really surprised how it stays inside of you with the side notches prevent it from getting stuck in your rear. I would highly recommend getting 2, 1 for your partner and for yourself. It's really easy to wash as well.