My wife and I actually purchased two of these dongs. She prefers a flesh color for her play, while I prefer her to strap up in a color that matches her outfits when we use mine... It's also more sanitary this way, just to be on the safe side.

Material: The rubber that this dong is made out of is on the soft side. If you're going for 'life-like' feel in a dong, then this one is a little more flexible than a real thing. I enjoy this flexibility, as it makes for more comfortable, less-cautious anal play than something firmer, like glass of hard plastic, and if your tastes are such, penetration is easier and more comfortable with this flexibility. The downside to this flexibility is that this dong won't put a lot of pressure stimulation on a P or G spot, even with the curvature that the dong has. She enjoys hers in the shower mostly, and the suction cup holds fast to the smooth shower walls for as long as you'd like a suction cup to stick. This dong does have a rubbery, plastic kind of smell, as it is made out of rubber, so be advised of that. It's not overbearing, but it does exist.

Aesthetics: We both like the look and feel of this one. It's 'anatomic' shaping is consistent, the shaft gets a little thicker the closer you get to the base of it. The curvature resembles a natural look, and the veiny texture of the dong is pleasing both visually and to the touch. My wife has made comment that she wishes the head of the dong was a little more pronounced for her, but I don't share in that opinion. Then again, we receive ours in different ways, so I can see her point. If you like color options, this one comes in many, including a glow in the dark option, which is intriguing...

Functionality: We've used this model in about every way a couple can, and it's a great option as a plain, no bells and whistles kind of dong. Again, anally it's been comfortable in length and girth, and she's enjoyed hers vaginally as well. As far as harness compatibility, just make sure you have a metal O-ring with an inner dia. between 1.5"-1.75" (to fit in the space between the shaft of the dong and the suction base) and this dong will stay securely harnessed to whomever is wearing it.

Cleaning: It's a rubber, so it's microscopically porous. That means that all guidelines regarding safe play with porous toys should be regarded. If you want those guidelines, search them online, you'll find many experts with great advice. We clean ours by hand with Dawn dish soap, and toss them into the dishwasher.