We wanted to add some spice... and ideas. The game is fun as it builds up to the end. However some of the cards can be quite "pornographic" (example pretend you are a porn star etc.) For a couple who doesn't use porn we just filtered out the "too far" cards and tossed them. We also don't drink so we changed the "drink" spot to "non sexual what I love about you" things. It's been quite fun. We've played it a few times now.